05/February/2012I’d say I’ve been as busy as a beaver, but I avoid trite phrases like a plague. Ahem. That said, I have been hustling to complete my work as executor of mom and dad’s estate before I depart for Korea next week. They didn’t leave a large estate but it has been a pain the ass to deal with regardless. I closed the savings account out yesterday and mailed checks to my brothers. I’ve been getting forms notarized and “medallion stamped” in a complicated process to get ownership of several small stock funds transferred. We had an auction house handle all the household goods but things sold for a tiny fraction of their value. Ah well. Still to come is an auction for my mother’s doll collection. She had several hundred and by the book they should bring a pretty penny. Unfortunately, no one pays book value and in this economy people just aren’t spending money for vintage dolls. I feel bad about that, because mom always thought she had made a wise investment with her collecting hobby. I take some solace in the fact that folks are getting bargains and mom always loved a bargain. Monday I will visit my probate attorney and sign the “final accounting” papers for the estate. I guess it turns out to be true that there is a final accounting at the end of our time on earth. I also met with a CPA today to get my personal tax situation squared away before I fly. Uncle Sam has traditionally given me a good rogering at tax time. This year South Carolina is poised to bite me in the ass real hard as well. Anyway, things are what they are I suppose. Once I’m in Korea I’ll be able to think about something else for awhile. 02/February/2012I lived in Prescott in the late 70s/early 80s. It was a happy time. At least looking back on it. But then again, there was a divorce and a broken heart to deal with. Still, I was big into softball, x-country skiing, and I was the local union president for the National Association of Letter Carriers. And I really loved the beauty of living in Arizona’s Mile High City. What’s the point of getting old if you can’t look back on fond memories? My modified A-Frame at 1980 Shadow Valley Road. Our first little house at 785 Western Avenue. Me on skis. Imagine that… 01/February/2012…buried in the ground… …Mother Earth will swallow you lay your body down. National Cemetery, Honolulu USA. 18/January/2012Pretty interesting story of an Korean-American actor I’d never heard of, and his parents were the first married couple to immigrate to the U.S. 29/December/2011So, the day after Christmas dawned sunny and warm (low 50s) so I decided to take the GF out for a visit to South Carolina’s only National Park. Congaree National Park is only about 30 minutes from Columbia, so let’s go!
There are numerous hiking trails throughout the park but we opted for the very easy 2.5 mile boardwalk loop. According to the park brochure, the lush trees growing in this floodplain forest are some of the tallest in the hardwoods in the world. Of course, they didn’t look to “lush” on December 26. But they were tall. Now, I have seen the Sequoias in the Sierra Nevada, so when you are talking big, everything is relative. I recall that when I first moved to the South I sent a friend a postcard of the Smoky Mountains. She wrote back and said “you call those mountains? Folks sure do exaggerate back there!” Bottomland. Jee Yeun enjoys the view at Watson Lake. Two and a half miles was about all I had in me on this fine winter’s day. And so ends this tale. 18/December/2011Back in the day I use to enjoy x-country skiing in the White mountains of northern Arizona. Nowadays, I like to remember having fun in the snow. 11/December/2011Me and my son after a successful outing to the horse show in Poteau, Oklahoma. 10/December/2011Back in the early 1980s, I lived in eastern Oklahoma. Here’s a photo of farmstead where I stayed in those long ago days.
30/November/2011Gotta love seeing the nanny state’s idiocy exposed again… 28/November/201124/November/2011
My first American Thanksgiving since 2004. Looking forward to the turkey and fixin’s. Here’s the link to my Aunt Pat’s fruit salad, a family tradition. 14/November/2011Subject: FW: To All My Valued Employees (Great Letter)
13/November/201111/November/2011Back in the 1980s, me and the kids lived out in Monroe, Oklahoma on this 80 acre hobby farm. It was really not the life for me, but the kids loved it. 10/November/2011Really cool time lapse video of a coast-to-coast (and back) road trip. Worth the 5 minutes.
07/May/2011No, the blog is not dead, on life support perhaps, but not dead. The fact of the matter is that I just don’t have anything much of interest going on these days. And what little I’ve had to say, I’ve said on Facebook. I’ve pretty much finished all the major house projects (or at least I have exhausted all my discretionary funds). And I’ve got a nice, comfortable place to call home. Best of all, it’s paid for. In this economy, that’s better than money in bank. Or so at least I keep telling myself. My dad has some pretty serious health issues. He has a condition called temporal arteritis which has caused him to lose vision in one eye and impaired the vision in the other. It appeared for awhile he may go completely blind, but six days in the hospital for intravenous steroid treatment seems to have stopped the progression of symptoms. He’s extremely weak and unstable however, so I make daily visits, do his shopping, and drive him to his doctor appointments. I’m still playing darts twice a week and I’m throwing about as well as I ever have. Which is not great, but I don’t have the frustration that comes from under-performing. Darts is really the extent of my social life, and it’s something I look forward to each week. Had a visit from some old friends from high school, Rod and Pat Headlee. Our paths seem to cross every few years and we get the chance to catch up on what’s happening and reminisce about the glory days. I must admit that their life is much more interesting than mine. They live on a 42′ sailboat and regularly travel the big water to exotic locations, mostly in the South Pacific. They had some really amazing stories about their adventures. We have a standing invite to join them on the boat for one of their journeys. Truth be told, I can see myself meeting them in Pago Pago and doing some day trips around the islands but I’m not sure I’m up for a blue water excursion. We’ll see. Jee Yeun seems to be adapting well to life in America. Although she’s a big city girl at heart, and as far as cities go, Columbia is a burg compared to Seoul. She’s a trooper though. She’s been out digging in the back yard for the past couple of days removing weeds and such. I think she must enjoy it, but she did tell me the other day that she hadn’t planned on becoming a farmer when she moved to the USA. I’ve also enjoyed getting to see the kids and grandkids on a semi-regular basis. And I have a new granddaughter in the hatch, which will be my son’s first child. She’ll be born right about the time I get back from Korea. I’m really looking forward to spending the summer back in the Land of the Morning Calm. Jee Yeun says I miss Korea more than her. Maybe that’s true. I miss my friends and the lifestyle, that’s for sure. Of course, I recognize that things will be different when I return. Life moves forward and things change and all that. But I’m nothing if not adaptable, so I’m not too worried. I think my biggest fear about returning to America was getting sucked in. By that I mean, falling into a quiet routine and living a vanilla life. I’ve been consciously resisting that, but I’m probably at least half way there. But I’m not going down without a fight! See? I warned you I had nothing much to say. And I said it anyway. 22/April/2011So, yesterday I enlisted the help of a neighbor and we installed new lights on the front and back porches. Now, one thing I learned from this experience is it pays to read the instructions first. Still after a few do-overs, we managed to get the front light hung. The second thing I learned is that electricity can be a pretty unforgiving thing. Now before you jump to any conclusions about my intelligence, I want to state right up front that I did in fact turn off the lighting breaker at the panel before starting the project. And we got the front porch taken care without anything, ahem, shocking taking place. As we installed the back porch light, the exposed wires touched and they made a pretty impressive spark. My neighbor was incredulous when I assured him I had in fact thrown the breaker. But before continuing I did the smart thing and turned off the main breaker and the install was completed without further incident. Except when we were finished the porch light didn’t work. I checked the breaker panel and saw that the switch for the great room was tripped. I reset it and the lamp was lit. So, I also now know that the back porch is not on the lighting circuit after all. But the biggest surprise came this morning when I attempted to turn on my television. Because it no longer works. I can only surmise that despite being on a surge protector, that spark on the great room circuit must have done some internal damage to the TV. Now, this is a 47 inch flat panel I purchased at the PX in Korea. It’s a Korean brand I’ve never seen anywhere else (AVOL). I looked up their USA service number on the Internet and called about getting it fixed. They said they’d be glad to take a look if I shipped it to California. Did I mention this is a 47″ flat screen? The AVOL folks helpfully suggested I contact AAFES (the retailer) to see if they could suggest someone for local servicing. The way things are looking I may have the most expensive back porch lighting fixture in the neighborhood. 19/April/201125/March/2011
–from the comments at Politico. 21/February/2011Spent the past several days shopping for furniture to fill the house in anticipation of eventually closing the deal. Uncle Sam (in the guise of HUD) is taking his sweet time, although the contract offer has been accepted and approved. Once I actually take possession I’m going to have to have the interior painted and new flooring installed before I actually move in. But when that day comes, I’ll have the living room, dining room, and bedroom furniture I’ve now purchased delivered. I won’t bore you with the details of my shopping experience (at least any more so than I already have), but I will relate a little story that I thought was kinda funny. I had looked at a leather couch/love seat combo I rather fancied at Ashley Furniture. About twice as expensive as the leather blends that are quite popular, but I’m hoping to make this the final furniture purchase in this lifetime. So I had to consider quality over price, at least to the extent I could afford to do so. Still, I wanted to stew on the decision for a bit before pulling the trigger. A few days later I found a bedroom suite that filled the bill at Value City and I completed the purchase transaction with my salesman, Maurice. Having now made up my mind to go with the leather at the Ashley store, I hooked up with Eva, the salesperson who had assisted me on my previous visit. She asked me if I had bought a bedroom set at Value City the previous day. I was somewhat taken aback, but confessed that I had in fact done so. It turns out that Maurice is Eva’s husband. Apparently he had told her about his “big sale” (these folks work on commission) and I guess his description of us rang a bell with Eva. Anyway, I thought that was a pretty amazing coincidence. I mean, the sales staff in both stores just grab the customers randomly as they enter the store. What are the odds that I’d just happen to get both ends of the married couple? I guess I made both of their days. And Eva said she’d be sure and remind Maurice she got the bigger sale. Me? I’m feeling quite a bit poorer for the experience. But I got some nice stuff. |
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